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224-306-2747

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Benefits of Seeing a Sex Consultation

There are a lot of benefits of seeing a sex therapist. 

Here are a few:

  • Becoming more embodied and aware of your desires and feelings
  • Increasing your skills around how to give and receive pleasure
  • Overcoming various sexual dysfunctions – everything from erectile dysfunction (ED) to low desire
  • Understanding, listening to, and expressing boundaries 
  • Learning tools around seduction that incorporate up-to-date consent practices
  • Dating skills such as flirting and recognizing when to make the first move 
  • Identify the multiple erogenous zones in and on the body.
  • Ensuring your peak experience each time

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Onsite Whole-Body Wellness

If you are into intense pleasure, these titles are sure to entice and engage you page after page.


Maybe She is Right

Hot Sex on a Platter

Queen B


If it's  a guide book steeped in physical intimacy for pleasure, this is it. 

Climax:: The Power of Great Sex

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Onsite Whole-Body Wellness

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Onsite Whole-Body Wellness

I invite you to come visit us at Shades Oasis where there are many opportunities to explore methods to whole-body wellness and intimacy education steeped in pleasure.  


Many practitioners bring in their talents of tantra, massage, yoga, yoni steams, mediation just to name a few. 


Lot's to explore at Oasis!

 

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Relationship Sessions

How Sound is Your Intimacy Relationships

It’s time to stop feeling confused, anxious, and hopeless, about how your body and mind responds to pleasure. 


I specialize in short term, action- and results-oriented consultation. I work with clients in person,  phone, or video. We’ll work together to identify what’s getting in the way of you having the intimate life of your dreams, and kickstart your love life with proven strategies.


I’m here to help you stop feeling embarrassed and ashamed and start having way more fun in the bedroom. 


If you struggle to achieve orgasm on your own or with a partner, you’re all too familiar with the anxiety-ridden thoughts that come along with the perceived failure to “get there.” You’ve waged long battles with these thoughts in your head. Sure, you want to release, because you want to feel good. But it’s become so much more than that at this point. 


If you are embarrassed to even talk to your best friend about it.  That is where I step in.  Let's answer the question - are you even having an orgasm?We will create a more confident you. A you who has complete control over your pleasure and your ability to discuss it with your partner(s).

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Sip & Paint Figure Model

What to Expect

Painting experience. Get ready for a truly adult paint night. Instead of painting your typical high heel or wine glass, you'll be painting a figure model! Our models are hand-picked professionals who will be posing as you channel your inner artist. Great for a night out, adventurous date, or just a spicy way to start your weekend!

• All attendees must be 21+ with valid ID.

• Includes canvas and painting supplies and 2 glasses of wine.

• LIMITED SEATING! No tickets will be sold at the door

• Tickets are final sale. Refunds will be given if event is cancelled


Guests are guided through a painting expression. Each of our guests leave the event with their masterpiece of the human form to hang on their wall at home. The monthly event will have a different model and it is always instructor led. 

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Nurturing the Sacred Temple: An Intimate Yoni Steam Workshop

What to Expect

 

During a Yoni Steam Ceremony, you'll find yourself in a serene and sacred space, where herbal steam gently envelops your body, fostering balance, vitality, and connection.  


Key highlights of a Yoni Steam Ceremony:

  • Holistic Healing: Yoni steaming is an age-old tradition that combines herbal medicine and mindfulness to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.  Feminine Empowerment: This ceremony celebrates the power and beauty of the female body, fostering self-love and connection to your femininity.  Stress Relief: The warmth and aroma of the herbal steam can help release tension, reduce stress, and soothe the body and mind.  
  • Detoxification: Yoni steaming supports the body's natural detoxification processes, helping to release impurities and encourage a sense of renewal.  
  • Menstrual Health: Many women find relief from menstrual discomfort and irregularities through regular Yoni Steam Ceremonies.  
  • Spiritual Connection: This ancient practice can be a deeply spiritual experience, allowing you to connect with your inner self and enhance your spiritual journey.  
  • Customized Experience: Yoni steaming can be tailored to your unique needs with different herbal blends, ensuring a personalized and therapeutic experience.  


Discover the profound benefits of a Yoni Steam Ceremony and embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Reconnect with your body, embrace your feminine energy, and experience the transformative power of this ancient ritual.

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Sexy Talk & Play

This monthly event is a cocktail and convo event.  2nd Saturdays monthly, we choose a topic and then a brief Q&A on ways to improve your physical intimate relationships through knowledge about how the body responds to stimuli.

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Adult Recess

A workshop within a party! Varies topics are delivered, guest explore the facilities equipment and furniture engaging with individuals in a safe, inclusive space steeped in pleasure.

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Themed Parties

Ever want to party in a space conducive to your "kink"? From puppy play to sloshing, we celebrate through pleasure in a healthy environment. Demonstrations by seasoned practitioners are given within the cost of your ticket. 

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Workshops

Hands on activities in 45 minute - 2 hour sessions. Rate range from $150 - $3,500. Based on # of participants and location.

The Ultimate Gspot Workshop

6902

We are going to go through a boot camp about the female ejaculation. How it differs from genital/clitoral orgasms, how to release ejaculate, what positions aid the orgasm success. As well, you are going to know where the G-spot is located and how to feel a variety of orgasms and sensations of pleasure that will aid your overall well being. 

Straight Answers 2 Gay ?s

6903

Whatever your level of comfort and knowledge with gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender issues, this workshop will give you a chance to learn about LGBTQIA lives and experiences, get answers to your questions, and take away practical tips for working and interacting with LGBTQIA individuals. With the goal of increasing awareness, comfort, and sensitivity to LGBTQIA issues.

LGBTQIA Is Not A Sandwich

6904

All are welcome to join the conversation about living as an LGBTQIA individual in an era where all four generations are in the workforce and dating pool.  Let’s talk about status honesty, dating, and sex positions for the best orgasm regardless of who’s on top!


Sexual Intimacy - W4W

6905

 

Have you (and your partner) ever wondered about the term “lesbian bed death”? Does this seem like the inevitable course for your relationship? Is your relationship wavering on the brink of disaster and a big part of this is because neither, or only one, of you has the desire to be sexually intimate? Are you feeling low sexual self-esteem? Learn tips on avoiding bed death and maintaining intimacy. 

Intense Submissive Training

6906

The first thing to know about the art of dominating a submissive is that it is about the receiver, not the giver.  This means that it is up to you to provide a PLEASURABLE experience through exotic touch, whispered words, the art of surprise and lastly, painful or intense pleasure to climax (if allowed).

Sexual Integrity

6907

This workshop is for individuals who are searching for freedom from compulsive sexual behavior. This workshop helps participants get below the surface of their behaviors and arrive at an understanding of their basic needs and hurts that drive them. Participants will find the format to be flexible and allows for individual time to process assignments.  1 week to began the work to live healthy. 

Understanding Orgasm-T&R

6908

Did you know that certain tension and stress can hinder or minimize your sexual pleasure?  Many of us don’t link our dissatisfaction in bed with what’s happening in your life daily.  Learn how to release tension and relax into stronger more rewarding sexual experiences. 

Experience Your Sensual Side

6909

Have you gotten that feeling of denial when you found out that those guys were not talking about you, but rather your sexy friend? Everyone been through it before. Those days are long over if you're ready to revamp your style and turn everyone's head. A work on confidence building. 


Ladies Get Your Groove On

6910

Before you can get your groove on, do what you must do to prepare your body.  Covers 10 known hot spots of the V. How to relax, come out of your head space and enjoy an orgasm as well as, what sexual positions, toys, lubes etc., could lead every womyn to their best sex. 

60 Turn-ons For The Best Sex

6911

Clueless when it comes to turning someone on? Your not alone. A discussion of 60 turn-ons, a few turnoffs and confidence building to be alluring. 

The Allusive Gspot

6912

A presentation and conversation on where the G-spot is located, how best to stimulate the area and what happens during a G-spot orgasm.

Gspot For Men

6913

You read that right! This workshops covers the pleasures of pegging.  Men and women learn about tools, lubes and toys that make pegging safe, pleasurable and rewarding.

Sexual Taboos

6914

You find it tantalizing, others find it odd. A detailed workshop addressing and debunking sexual taboos.  Taboos are labels defined by the observer.  Learn methods used on either side of the observation and find common ground of acceptance for all.

10 Orgasms You Must Try

6915

With the ability to have different types of orgasms and a variety of feelings and levels of intensity associated with them, womyn are “built” with the capacity to reach orgasms of different types. Learn 10 of them and then have fun practicing. 

Orgasm In The Morning

6916

Orgasm is the best way to start the day hands down. A great start to the day can make the rest of the day fly by so much better. When you add an orgasm into your morning routine, you’ll get to enjoy a ton of physical and emotional benefits that last the entire day. Learn quickie positions and benefits.

BDSM 201

6917

Detailed workshop on how to explore bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism as a dominate or as a submissive. Participants will be able to develop a creative mindfuckery play and tips to set goals and limits for their own pleasure. Head-space is where it's at. But you don't have to be a hypnotist, psychologist or shaman to get there.

Handicapable Pleasures

6918

There is a direct link to sexual abuse and consensual sex acts of individuals with a disability.  This workshop is not about discussing such abuse.  What it will cover is the alternatives and options for sexual pleasure between consenting adults regardless of mental or physical disability.  

Sex Clubs Know How

6919

When that feeling of sexual routine begins to set in, many forward-thinking couples nowadays consider swinging as a solution. Swinging is usually not just a one-time thing. Most couples who consider themselves swingers treat it as a lifestyle. Learn the challenges and rewards of this lifestyle and define your boundaries of participating so that you can began to explore. 

Temperature play

6920

This is a hands on experience. Substances of water, oil, and wax will be used on the exposed skin of participants. We will use objects which may  include cutlery, ball chains, necklaces and many others objects. We will use blindfolds and bondage to amplify the experience as a bonus add-on. 

Saddle up

6921

What, why and how do strap-on harnesses work. Harnesses and dildos are made in a wide variety of styles, with variations in how the harness fits the wearer, how the dildo attaches to the harness, as well as various features intended to facilitate stimulation of the wearer or a sexual partner. Exploring the  wide variety of sexual activities and lubrication that can be used to ease insertion, this workshop is designated 21+ only. 

Labels Beyond Gay and Straight

6922

A thought-provoking, interactive workshop about identity labels . As new generations come out, increasing numbers are rejecting “traditional” sexual orientation identity labels like gay and straight, instead describing themselves with words like queer, pansexual, heteroflexible, “just sexual,” or choosing not to use a label at all. In this workshop, participants will explore the usefulness and limits of identity labels.


Image Workshops

All Workshops can be delivered via lecture and includes PowerPoints, or video images.


Private Parties

By "Private" I mean you choose your audience! I can come in and do any of my sessions with your private group.

Rates are subject to change at any time. We reserve the right to deny entry at our discretion.

Resources

Transgender Information

National Center for Transgender Equality

 https://transequality.org/issues/resources/frequently-asked-questions-about-transgender-people 

Stonewall Columbus

 https://stonewallcolumbus.org/ 

glaad LGBTQ Resource List

 https://www.glaad.org/resourcelist 


Books

Buy your book(s) now!

Maybe She is Right

15.99

First in the series

Hot Sex on a Platter

15.99

2nd in the series

Queen B

15.99

3rd in the series

Climax The Power of Great Sex

15.99

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I want to hear from you!

Debra Shade travels the country delivering as a keynote and expert on completing the sexual response cycle. 

Join her for engaging experiences to learn something; you didn't even know, you didn't know. 

Shade Media

2469 East Dublin Granville Road, #297926 Columbus, Ohio 43229, United States

(614) 4074233

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